Recently I’ve been asked what’s the point of saying you miss your significant other after a big dispute or bad breakup. It’s about needs being met and conflict not being repeated. It doesn’t mean you give up.

To make anything successful you must first experience failure. For the new year I believe there is no reason to hide how you feel. Communication about unmet needs is crucial to solving issues, no matter impersonal or personal. My best advice is to write a pros and cons list about your relationship.

Which list has more points displayed? If it’s the negative points can you resolve them by you changing your behavior or by talking to your partner about concerns?

Sometimes actions speak louder than words. Sometimes there are times to be heard and other times to just zip your mouth. Pick your battles. You don’t have to always win them all. Try to figure what made you attractive to your partner in the beginning. When people invest time and effort in something long term it takes longer to get over it which could aid in resolving the situation. If things seem beyond repair try getting yourself together!

Self love is crucial to finding a good woman or man because people are attracted to positive energy! If you feel great about yourself the world will feel great about you! Remember only you can get rid of your own insecurites, no one can make you happy. A person can enhance your happiness but it’s up to you to allow yourself real happiness. You know you best! I hope this advice helps.- fromgirltogirl

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