How to keep money from ruining your relationship | Valentine’s Day

Natalie Nelson

Money is one of the most common topics couples argue about, but there may be more to it than meets the eye. Natalie Nelson, Energy Healing Educator & Program Developer for HealersLibrary.com, is here to give the scoop on how to keep money from ruining your relationship. Nelson, who is the daughter of renowned holistic physician Dr. Bradley Nelson, author of the bestselling book The Emotion Code and creator of The Body Code healing system believes some people don’t believe they can have both love and money, while others struggle with self-worth issues that lead to both money and relationship problems. This comes in the form of emotional baggage.

Experts agree that talking about your feelings around money and finances is the key to keeping it from becoming a relationship killer, but how?

Nelson recommends seeking to understand how your conflict resolution style impacts your relationships. The following sample questions you can ask and answer from her “Resonating Relationships” assessment – number each from 1 to 5 (with 1 being what most describes you) to determine your primary conflict resolution style:

What is your typical conflict resolution style?

  • Avoiding ___
  • Accommodating ___
  • Competing ___
  • Compromising ___
  • Collaborating ___

If you are in a relationship, have your partner also assess his or her style. “Our conflict resolution style impacts all our relationships,” Natalie says. “ Work toward always being a collaborator.”

About Natalie Nelson

Natalie Nelson, 33, has spent more than 15 years studying, experiencing and teaching the powerful healing that is possible through The Emotion Code and The Body Code, created by her father Dr. Bradley Nelson. As a certified Emotion Code/Body Code Trainer, she has taught healing practitioners all over the world in these systems to help people identify and release negative emotions. She developed Resonating Relationships to help people discover and get rid of the emotional baggage that can sabotage love, romance and healthy, lasting relationships. She currently resides in Salt Lake City, UT. 

About Dr. Bradley Nelson

Dr. Bradley Nelson is a holistic Chiropractic Physician, a Medical Intuitive, and one of the world’s foremost experts in the emerging fields of Bioenergetic Medicine and Energy Psychology. His bestselling book, “The Emotion Code,” provides step-by-step instructions for working with the body’s healing power. Download a free copy at EmotionCodeGift.com.

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Being held back from love? Learning how to move forward in a productive relationship.

How to find and maintain a productive romantic relationship - advice from Natalie Nelson
With Valentine’s Day coming up, a new assessment tool to help people find if they resonate romantic energy, or are being held back by emotional baggage is available. Natalie Nelson, Energy Healing Educator, Program Developer and daughter of renowned holistic physician Dr. Bradley Nelson is here to give insight to why people seeking healthy romantic relationships are being held back from love and how to move forward in a productive relationship.

Resonating Relationships: The Energy of Romance

Many people have had the experience of dating someone with too much emotional baggage, but what if you are the person with the emotional baggage? You might not know that negative emotions from past experiences can cause you to sabotage relationships or attract Mr. or Miss Wrong. To help people who are struggling to find or sustain loving relationships, Natalie Nelson and her company HealersLibrary.com have created a new guide to healthy relationships titled Resonating Relationships, specifically to help people discover and get rid of the emotional baggage that can sabotage love, romance and healthy, lasting relationships.

“Having been in several relationships and struggled, and seeing alot of people who I know just totally struggle in their relationships, I got really frustrated with all of that because I think it shouldn’t be so difficult,” she says. “And I think that so much of the reason why people struggle is because there’s just things going on that they’re just not aware of. That’s part of the reason why I created this guide.”

Natalie will share tools from the Relationships That Resonate guide and assessment, including questions to help people get to the bottom of what may be holding them back from love, including questions such as:

  1. How stressed are you about your relationship / lack of relationship?
  2. How much control does your relationship issues have over your happiness?
  3. How blocked do you feel from nurturing romantic relationship(s) now or in the past?
  4. How difficult have you found it to communicate calmly with partner(s) now or in the past?
  5. How often do you put aside your own needs or feelings to keep the peace?

Natalie can also share:

  • How family history and traumas affect our ability to give and receive love
  • How to use visualization to find what you want and need in a partner
  • How to identify negative connections with others you must cut to heal and move on.
  • Metrics to help singles and those in committed relationships decide if they are in “Connection Mode” or “Isolation Mode; “Nurture Mode” or “Conflict Mode” and for those in committed relationships, “Harmony Mode” or “Discord Mode”

About Natalie Nelson

Natalie Nelson has spent more than 15 years studying, experiencing and teaching the powerful healing that is possible through The Emotion Code and The Body Code, created by her father Dr. Bradley Nelson. When she found herself in a failing marriage, she became inspired to create a new Body Code expansion program, Resonating Relationships: The Energy of Romance, a system that can affect powerful change that heals people and couples from the inside out. She currently resides in Salt Lake City, UT.

About Dr. Bradley Nelson

Dr. Bradley Nelson is a holistic Chiropractic Physician, a Medical Intuitive, and one of the world’s foremost experts in the emerging fields of Bioenergetic Medicine and Energy Psychology. His bestselling book, “The Emotion Code,” provides step-by-step instructions for working with the body’s healing power. Download a free copy at EmotionCodeGift.com.

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How to remove emotional baggage that keeps you from finding lasting love


Many singles dread Valentine’s Day with its focus on couples in love, spawning such “anti-Valentine’s” observances as #SinglesAwarenessDay. While many people are single by choice or reject the cloying, commercial aspects of Valentine’s Day, countless others yearn to find a loving partner but find themselves unable to form or sustain lasting relationships. Veteran holistic physician Dr. Bradley Nelson to explain how emotional baggage from the past can form a “Heart-Wall™” that keeps people from love, and how removing this block can help them find lasting love.

3 Steps to Dismantle a Heart-Wall

Whether due to a bad breakup, divorce, death of a partner or past life events that have had a negative impact on our ability to open up to and trust others, anyone can have a Heart-Wall and not even be aware of it, Dr. Nelson Bradley says. When our heart is closed to love, it can prevent us from forming new relationships, block us from experiencing love in our current relationships and leave us feeling isolated and alone. Here are three steps to dismantling a Heart-Wall from the world-renowned healer who coined the term for what has been called “the most important discovery in the history of energy medicine.”

  1. Realize your heart may not be open to love in spite of all you do or have done. “A Heart Wall is made up of trapped emotional energy,” Dr. Nelson Bradley says. “If you experience an emotion that is very powerful – grief or depression or anger or resentment, whatever it is, if it is powerful enough the energy of that emotion can become trapped in the body and cause problems for you later in life in all kinds of ways.”
  2. Acknowledge that you have a Heart Wall from past trauma.“Sometimes we need to protect our hearts, so trapped emotions are added layer by layer like the layers of an onion. It is a protective mechanism to keep our heart from being hurt or totally broken. Each trapped emotion forms one layer in the heart-wall; each is unique and different.”
  3. Take steps to get rid of your Heart Wall. Dr. Bradley Nelson explains steps for identifying and releasing the negative emotions that form Heart Walls:
  • The trapped emotions that form a Heart Wall are inaccessible until a person acknowledges that he or she has a Heart Wall.
  • A Heart-Wall can be revealed by asking the person’s subconscious mind.
  • Once revealed, trapped emotions become recognizable to the subconscious mind and vulnerable to being released.

About Dr. Bradley Nelson

Dr. Bradley Nelson has lectured internationally on the natural healing of chronic illness and successfully treated patients from across the US and Canada for more than 20 years. He has trained more than 2,000 practitioners worldwide on how to help people overcome unresolved anger, depression, anxiety, loneliness and other negative emotions and the physical symptoms associated them. In call in programs and on-air demonstrations, Dr. Bradley Nelson guides people through a series of questions to identify the root cause of the Heart Wall and remove it. For more information, please visit the online press kit DrBradleyNelson.com and EmotionCode.TV.

 

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Top 5 Questions to stop sabotaging New Year’s Resolution goals

Doctor Bradley Nelson offers tips on successfully achieving New Year's Resolutions
Are you making a list of  New Year’s resolutions? Many people assume that success is a matter of self-discipline, yet research suggests that willpower is inherently limited. We can set our minds on goals, such as eating less, exercising more, making or saving more money, but we will ultimately fail unless our emotions are aligned, says veteran holistic physician and international trainer Dr. Bradley Nelson.

How Questions and Tips Energize Your Goals for 2017

The most common cause of failing to meet goals is self-sabotage – the unseen, often unconscious thoughts and behaviors that keep us from becoming the person we hope to be. Self-sabotage often happens because of emotional baggage – unresolved “trapped” emotions that cause people to act in ways that are contrary what they say they want to make. Dr. Nelson shares these questions to help people identify and resolve unconscious blocks to success:

  • What needs to be released in order for me to carry out this goal?
  • Am I ok with achieving my goal?
  • Do I deserve to meet my goal?
  • Am I blocked from achieving my goal?
  • Is there anything negative related to me accomplishing my goal, such as more work, potential negative effect on others?

Additional tips to prevent Self-Sabotage

  • Make a goal calendar, and mark off each day
  • Write down goals
  • Journal experiences. The more involved we are with our goals, the more likely we are to succeed
  • Tell friends about New Year’s Resolution goals. Yes, Facebook friends matter and accountability is a big motivator.
  • Make weekly progress notes and photos

“Part of the problem with goals is that we tend to get depressed if we don’t meet them,” Dr. Nelson says. “It’s important that we aren’t too hard on ourselves if we don’t make our goals. Just the fact that you are trying is a great achievement and if you don’t make your goals, try again.” For more information, please visit DrBradleyNelson.com and EmotionCode.TV

 

About Dr. Bradley Nelson

Dr. Nelson has lectured internationally on the natural healing of chronic illness and successfully treated patients from across the US and Canada for more than 20 years. He has trained more than 2,000 practitioners worldwide on how to help people overcome unresolved anger, depression, anxiety, loneliness and other negative emotions and the physical symptoms associated them. Dr. Bradley Nelson is one of the world’s foremost experts in the emerging fields of Bioenergetic Medicine and Energy Psychology. His bestselling book “The Emotion Code” is helping people all over the world to improve their lives easily and quickly. Download a free copy of The Emotion Code in both audio and .pdf versions, including step-by-step instructions for working with the body’s healing power at EmotionCodeGift.com.

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How to stop ghosts of Christmas past from ruining your holidays

The holiday season is a time people try to come together for joyful celebration with loved ones in a way that feels loving and positive for all. However, a recent study shows that well more than half —about 61%—anticipate arguments and contention during the holidays. Holistic physician, lecturer and author of the bestselling book, “The Emotion Code,” Dr. Bradley Nelson helps people to let go of unhelpful emotions from the past so they can enjoy the company of loved ones in the present.

Are the Ghosts of Christmas Past Ruining Your Holidays?

In the story “A Christmas Carol,” Scrooge is visited by the Ghost of Christmas Past who takes Scrooge on a tour of the parts of his life that have led to him becoming the angry, miserly man he is today. No matter who you are, you have past events that color emotional reactions in the present. These unhealed, often hidden “trapped emotions” can ruin your chances of living a healthy, happy life.

What parts of your past have contributed to unhealthy present ways of being?

“Do you ever feel that you are struggling under the weight of something that you can’t quite put your finger on?” asks Dr. Nelson. “Perhaps your life is not turning out how you had hoped. Perhaps your attempts to form lasting relationships never seem to work out. You may wish that certain events in your past had never occurred but feel powerless to move beyond them. You may even have an uneasy feeling that your present is being held hostage by your past in some vague and indefinable way.”

  • Emotions you carry from upsetting things that you have experienced are your very own “Ghosts of Christmas Past.”
  • You can change your present moment by committing to a healthier, happier version of yourself. Those old “trapped emotions” can be released through Dr. Bradley Nelson’s Emotion Code.
  • Give yourself the promise of a better future by healing the past.

 

Dr. Bradley Nelson

About Dr. Bradley Nelson: Dr. Nelson has lectured internationally on the natural healing of chronic illness and successfully treated patients from across the US and Canada for more than 20 years. He has trained more than 2,000 practitioners worldwide on how to help people overcome unresolved anger, depression, anxiety, loneliness and other negative emotions and the physical symptoms associated them.

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