If you ask me what I find most attractive in a man, it comes down to 6 things: 1. Real confidence ( he isn’t shallow. He doesn’t have to speak about how ‘he’s the man’ because his actions speak for him. He is okay being unique rather than just another brick in the wall. & he is ok challenging my ego & beliefs). 2. He isn’t boring ( he knows how to create fun beyond sex. He knows how to have adventures when we are broke & when we are well off. He is happy to spend time with me & never makes me feel unappreciated or less than associations he has in his individual life). 3. He is fair & honest. 4. He is a leader & can envision a life that includes a Us building dreams of 2 people in 1 life frame. 5. He has faith in God & prays no matter if his world is going up or down. 6. He doesn’t go to sleep holding anger. —- & Yup, until I know for sure I’m with that right fit for me, there’s no way I’m reciting vows lol.