Reasons to pick a man with good character & you have self-love / self-confidence all along: See a car as a relationship. You’re driving & the man you’re seeing is in the passenger seat. If you & him always let fear & insecurity guide the wheel the car will veer out of control at high speeds. You’ll be in a frenzy & the sorry dude is just going to jump out the passenger seat to save his own ass. You’ll be left with your own demise. But when you let hope & love float it’s a smooth ride because God has the wheel. Which would you rather choose?