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Do you really like the guy you are dating? Do you want to take the relationship to the next level? Then stop listening to your girlfriends about getting his exclusivity with you. Although you may read in several dating articles that you have to give him the big talk to commit, you do not have to pressure him into being with you.
Read How to Inspire a Man to Commit Without The Big Talk now to learn what you really need to do. Also watch the video below to learn how to overcome commitment phobia:
Did you know the age group of men most likely to commit is between 35-45 years of age? This may be alarming to most women because the clock is always ticking for us to have families and to find real love.
If you are feeling frustrated about inspiring your man to commit, read this article ‘How to make a Man Never Let You Go.’
Watch the video below for more great information:
This is such a great video on the science and economics behind why there are so many women out here that find it challenging to find decent men. Women simply don’t stick to their boundaries. There’s just too many women making sex too easy to get. Not to mention, a poor economy is making young men feel worthless and they have no idea how to enter manhood.
Watch the video here:
My opinion: Unless a man knows right by his parents or guardian and a woman respects herself, lack of commitment will continue to happen.
There’s nothing wrong with making earning you a challenge for a man. Sometimes it’s good to make him feel uncomfortable so he can grow into the great man he wants to become. Stop making things so easy for men courting you.
Who wants to buy the cow when the milk is free? No one. Don’t cheapen yourself. Follow Fromgirltogirl on Facebook for more advice.
This is true. Never drop your plans for a man. If he is a real gentleman, he’ll make a way to fit you in his life no matter how busy his schedule may be. Immature guys drop plans without reason, go hot & cold, and treat you like crap.
You’ll know when a good man comes around because his actions of commitment will speak louder than his promises of commitment.
Often we hang on to a relationship because we so badly for it to be the one that works. But we are setting ourselves up for pain & loss when we wait too long for it to work out. When a man says someday, don’t wait. Someday may never come. If you want commitment in the now, you can’t just sit & wait for his someday that may never happen. When you’re in this limbo position, it’s only convenient for him to have a taste of exclusiveness as he clings to his comfort zone of single guy mode. You’re precious & you deserve someone that respects & appreciates you at all times. When a man has no long term goal to commit to you, it’s time to let him. If you’re searching for someone to build a real life with you, you need to let him know. You need to set a time limit for your waiting. 10 years is out of the question. 5 years is out of the question. God made you to be loved. When you live your own life, the commitment needed for a healthy relationship will come from the right person at the right time. Don’t waste your time. For more information LIKE us on Facebook & subscribe to our blog.
Overcoming the fear of commitment is such a vulnerable but rewarding journey. God has a funny way of directing paths to better living.
If you have ever wondered why guys simply don’t choose to commit to just one woman, unless they believe they can’t do without her, the answer is simple. The reason why a guy doesn’t commit to one woman is that all the women he has met thus far are completely and utterly boring to him.
I don’t mean boring as in personality ( it’s possible) but in the sense they think all women are the same kind of person.
I mean, females do the same with guys too. Sometimes guys can be really boring in a relationship.
But you can only blame society for that boredom …society likes to make us all one dimensional people.
In fact, men are attracted to me because of the fact my competitors are one dimensional women.
One dimensional means you’re boxed into one category and that limits you to a train of thought and with life you have to learn to be open to being truly happy.
When I was growing up I used to be categorized as the quiet one, the kind one or the shy one.
After I stopped accepting those labels and became a confident woman, I started wearing my labels like outfits.
Some days I’m the sexy one. Sometimes I’m the quiet one. I’m daring. I’m smart. I’m elegant. I can be more than just one at any time or place.
And of course when I no longer fit to set labels people gave me…the first remark was : ” you’ve CHANGED.”
Change is not always negative. Sometimes it can be the best thing that’s ever happened..in my case it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
I am at a place in my life I’m actually happy with myself. I’m devoted to my happiness and spreading any happiness I can to those around me. It’ s a great feeling.
I’ve gain freedom that I’ve never had.I realized that I’ll never lose that freedom because I’m finally being me.
Freedom is the heart of being a woman. It’s part of my femininity.
I want to genuinely commit to someone for only the right reasons. It won’t ever be based on someone being a raving fan of me. I want to feel I have more freedom by being with someone than by not being with someone. When that happens, I know that I’ve have met my equal.
This confidence in myself and my mindset has allowed me now to attract positive people in my life. I’m more than enough and I know it.
Challenge yourself to truly love you and have a positive mindset about love. This will bring remarkable people into your life.
Always focus on yourself and what you can do. You were born to love. You were born for greatness.
To change your emotional state to positive, you must change your physical state. You can’t fear love. You can’t fear happiness.
Don’t justify your suffering. Don’t justify why you haven’t achieved love. Do something about it.
You’re sexy enough, smart enough, beautiful enough, and special enough to be loved.
In 2012 I realized I was a ridiculously attractive and irresistible woman. I always have something new and better to bring to the table. And that’s when I stopped telling myself lies about my own capabilities and desirability. I challenge you to do the same. You deserve commitment and it will come if you never settle for crumbs.
Don’t ever lose your natural femininity and intuition. You need these features of yourself to be successful in courtship and relationships with men. Don’t be one dimensional.
The possibility of being fulfilled by one companion is real. You can have it all.
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By Briana Booker
Life is about adaption, acceptance and rejection. Sometimes we have to evaluate our lives in order to see what’s dragging us down and what’s uplifting us to be better people and do better things for ourselves and others. One necessary action, from time to time, is removing toxic relationships from our lives.
Toxic relationships can infiltrate every part of our lives if we allow them to have unchecked power. Toxic relationships know no boundaries and find pleasure making your life one huge festival of misery. The worst types of toxic relationships are toxic friendships and toxic romantic partners.
What are toxic friendships?
Toxic friendships are relationships where the word ‘friend’ is used liberally but those given the title take everything while giving nothing. These friends also require high demands of you but sets low standard for what they will bring to the relationship. In fact, those relationships are not friendships but situations where those titled as friends are really master manipulators. In no shape or form are these people willing to accept and follow through on the concept of giving and taking.
If this sounds like friends you have in your life, immediately drop the relationships like it’s hot. This includes removing their telephone numbers from your contact list and not arranging outings with these low lifes. It doesn’t matter if you have common friends. Real friends will always make time to interact with you at different times and not stir up gossip.
Eventually they will get the message you no longer want to continue the toxic friendships. Results: They will find another victim and leave you alone or they will mature and become a real friend.
Bottom line: Don’t wait for anyone to treat you better because if people wanted to be a good friend to you…they wouldn’t be inconsiderate. Good friends are simply good friends. They don’t make excuses for being bad friends.
Don’t be available to those who lack commitment. Be too committed elsewhere to participate in toxic friendships. Eventually, you will meet real friends.
Speaking of being too available, remove that toxic romance out of your life as well. Yes, all romantic relationships have ups and downs but there comes a time where lack of commitment and lack of desire to resolve problems becomes intolerable. Arguments should never surpass a couple of days. Silent treatment should never be tactic to “win” an argument.
In romantic relationships, it’s about working through problems together and enjoying the good times together. No shape or form should one put in more effort than the other in making the relationship work. Checks and balances are a necessity.
If your relationship has any degree of emotional or physical abuse, you need to end your relationship with the person in a public place. Try a coffee shop or outdoor gathering.
Most egoistical people hate looking unfavorable in public so the person won’t make a scene. If you need to arrange to pick up any of your stuff, bring several people with you. This is for your safety. Don’t be foolish. You don’t know what state the person may be after the break up.
Once the break up is official and you have no personal property in the previous significant other possession, don’t take any text messages, emails or calls from the person. If the person threatens you, file a police report.
Remember people don’t change into better people unless they want to change into better people.
Move forward and never look back. These relationships are called toxic relationships because they are bad for physical, mental and spiritual health. Love yourself enough to know you can and will do better.
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Many women seek to have a man that is truly her man only. However, few get the happily ever after of “That’s my man…the love of my life.”
What I have learned in my 20’s I think will truly help a woman asking herself whether a man is really her man. Yes, it comes in the following statement:
If you have to track him, he is not yours. A man that loves you,really loves you, you will never need to track him. Immature is a man that needs to gets tracked.
You are worth more than that. Never settle for it. Love will never come in this form…ever.
By Briana Booker
Besides having a positive attitude and a life of your own, how do you make your man want to commit to you?
Fromgirltogirl is starting a series on what makes a guy want to commit to you. We will provide you advice on how to get him there without convincing him or playing the mind games.
Tip #1 Show Him You are Selective.
When you show a man you are selective and not every man in the world can have you but the “one”, you draw him closer to you. Men love the thrill of the chase. They love working for something worth having. Sex with a girl that he cares nothing about is like a snack before a holiday feast. It is just for now but he is really anticipating the feast, the big reward.
You can start drawing a man in by saying honestly where you stand on your attitude about relationships. Do not whine about him and what he has not offered yet. You will scare him away by appearing too needy.
Say something around the lines of the following commit reference:
“It is your right to date more than one woman at a time. I understand, but I want you to know I am looking for an exclusive relationship with the right man. I want to find out if we are on the same page before taking our dating further.”
AND NO, IF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING A GUY FOR LESS THAN A MONTH, please do not try the whole, I love you forever and a day. You have to commit to me.
These actions and words are controlling. Honestly, it takes 3 to 4 months on average for people to get out of the lust/ honeymoon stage of dating.
Notice in the statement you made no demands. Because you made no demands, you do not come off needy and unattractive. You are simply letting him know you have standards and you will stick to those standards. He NEEDS to meet those standards before YOU can decide to choose to be with him.
It is that simple. You are presenting him your needs and boundaries. Any man that truly wants you and does not want to lose you will respect that.
Trust me, the right man will ASK YOU for commitment. And best of all he will think it was his idea the whole time and that he won your affection and passion.
If this does not happen, you know where you stand with him. He just is not that into you but that does not mean that will not change down the line.
But if he does not change( and please do not wait around for change), keep the door to your soul and effort open for someone ready to give you what you need and more. This is one of the stepping stones to forming an amazing and committed relationship.
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