If you have a dream, you have to protect. If you want something, go get it. Period. Repeat daily. Never be afraid to fail because you learn to succeed through the stepping stones of failure. Oh and lastly, never make an excuse for why you cant accomplish what you set out to do. Stay positive and greatness will follow. š
4 Ways To Have Spicy and Fierce Sex (Without the Sex): Casual dating to Commitment
By Briana Booker
Are you looking for ways to keep your developing romantic relationship passionate and healthy, while transitioning from casual dating to a healthy and committed relationship? If yes, Fromgirltogirl is here to help by giving you ways to have spicy, sexy and fierce, mindblowing sex without having sex with your partner. Read below to learn!
Sex is never anything you want to rush into in a relationship, if you are truly looking for a healthy and committed relationship. Trust me, sex is not the most important element of a healthy,romantic commitment but it sure does not hurt to keep it exciting.
You will never win someoneās love or commitment to you,if you are always readily available to give sex. If you can not respect yourself, no one will respect you sexually, mentally or spiritually.
But enough with the mommy warnings, you can get the man or woman of your dreams by exciting his or her interest. You should not give him or her what he or she wants right from the start. You have to learn how to grow his or her anticipation of what he or she can have completely for his or herself, if Ā in a committed relationship with you and only you.
Do not be the āmain chickā or āman dudeā. If you are okay with the degrading title and the actions that come with that title, you need to appreciate yourself more.
But with that said, here are 4 ways to have mindblowing sex that will help you grow commitment with the one you want and not the one you settle for:
Say Proudly You are not Going to Have Sex with Your Partner.
Yes, this sounds strange but it works. The perfect time to do this is during a make-out session with your significant other. Make sure you are looking the person directly in the eyes, so the person knows you are being serious. But do not stop what you are doing. It makes the person know what he or she can not have right now but that anything besides sex is up for grabs. It makes him or her want to earn being worthy of having you in that sense. It will also teach respect and taking the time and effort to respect you.
Use Your Hands
Forget sex and oral sex. You were given hands to explore and to accomplish tasks. With your hands you can be specific with placement, speed, and pressure. When you are with your partner be subtle, graceful and attentive. It will make your partner feel appreciated.
And you can do this just about anywhere ā at Ā the movie showing , a car, or under a table cloth. Do what makes you happy.
Fantasy
Yes, your hands can do plenty, especially when it comes to acting out your partner and your fantasies. Dress up or do not dress up. Ā Use massage oils and a towel. Relax your partner. Trust me, it will make him or her happy to be cater by you.
Never Underestimate the Power of the Element of Surprise
You can always spice up your sexual and romantic life with the element of surprise. Unexpected but welcomingĀ physicalĀ and emotional attention are always amazing to do towards your special someone. It does not matter if intercourse is involved in the matter or not, your partner and you will enjoy getting to know each other better.
Little gestures and caresses during breakfast or affectionate notes hidden in places your partner will find them will keep you on his or her mind all day. Ā He or she will look forward to alone time with you as soon as possible.
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Breaking the Chains of Poverty: 2011 GIRL EFFECT BLOGGING CAMPAIGN
By Briana Booker
If you are sick and tired of being sick and tired, there is a way to break from the chains of misery poverty forces on billions of people in the world. Yes, we often blame corporate world policy and conduct for why we can not put bread on the table. We often blame corrupt governments for our lack of good quality of life. But why have not we turned our fingers to point at ourselves?
When we give ourselves power, we control our own destiny. What are we waiting for? Although many of us are living in poverty, we are at a cross-road where we can change the course of our future for the better. How?
The answer is in the Girl Effect. When we educate our girls we give them, our boys, moms, dads, and entire communities the chance to escape the injustices of poverty for good. When women are educated,they obtain higher paying jobs. They obtain better health care. They obtain the ability to give their families and themselves the ability to live out dreams.
Here are some cool facts, just in case you are skeptical of the power of the Girl Effect, via a book, published by Cambridge Press, called Mothers at Work: Effects on Children’s Well-being by Lois Hoffman and Lise Youngblade, with Rebekah Coley, Allison Fuligni, and Donna Kovacs:
-Daughters of employed mothers have been found to have higher academic achievement, greater career success, more nontraditional career choices, and greater occupational commitment.
– Daughters of employed mothers have been found to be more independent, particularly in interaction with their peers in a school setting, and to score higher on socioemotional adjustment measures. This gives girls the ability to become outstanding leaders in the community.
-Daughters with employed mothers, across the different groups, show more positive assertiveness as rated by teachers (that is, they participate in class discussions, they ask questions when instructions are unclear, they are comfortable in leadership positions), and they show less acting-out behavior. They are less shy, more independent and have a higher sense of efficacy.
-Working-class boys also show more positive social adjustment when their mothers are employed, and true for both one-parent and two-parent families.
-Research results suggest that most families accommodate to the mother’s employment and in doing so provide a family environment that works well.
Read details on the study : http://parenthood.library.wisc.edu/Hoffman/Hoffman.html .
Join the campaign! Write about The Girl Effect at your blog this week, October 4-11, 2011! Link up your post http://www.taramohr.com/girleffectposts/ .
If you support Fromgirltogirl, you support Girl Effect as well.Learn about the big picture here: http://www.girleffect.org/learn/the-big-picture .
Get Ripe. Get Bold. Get Excellence. Check out the video below. Change the course of all our futures for the better, one girl at a time!
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Support/vote for @briana_fierce August 23rd for Brett Ratner photo shoot!
By Briana Booker
I am competing in a modeling contest for a photo shoot with Brett Ratner, who produced the Rush Hour movie series, to be a work of art in Treat magazine! I have always wanted to pursue modeling. This is my chance! Please vote for me on August 23 via Facebook or directly voting!
Here is the link to my submission of votes page:
Support/vote for @briana_fierce(that’s my twitter ) to get a photo shoot in cali with Brett Ratner!http://www.talenthouse.com/creativeinvites/preview/a9fcaf6203be7776ce3422502ab4304a/226