If you have ever wondered why guys simply don’t choose to commit to just one woman, unless they believe they can’t do without her, the answer is simple. The reason why a guy doesn’t commit to one woman is that all the women he has met thus far are completely and utterly boring to him.
I don’t mean boring as in personality ( it’s possible) but in the sense they think all women are the same kind of person.
I mean, females do the same with guys too. Sometimes guys can be really boring in a relationship.
But you can only blame society for that boredom …society likes to make us all one dimensional people.
I’m personally not just one kind of person so I get irked when people try to put a label on me. This is why I avoid being an one dimensional woman and I expect my soul-mate to not be an one dimensional man.
In fact, men are attracted to me because of the fact my competitors are one dimensional women.
One dimensional means you’re boxed into one category and that limits you to a train of thought and with life you have to learn to be open to being truly happy.
When I was growing up I used to be categorized as the quiet one, the kind one or the shy one.
After I stopped accepting those labels and became a confident woman, I started wearing my labels like outfits.
Some days I’m the sexy one. Sometimes I’m the quiet one. I’m daring. I’m smart. I’m elegant. I can be more than just one at any time or place.
And of course when I no longer fit to set labels people gave me…the first remark was : ” you’ve CHANGED.”
Change is not always negative. Sometimes it can be the best thing that’s ever happened..in my case it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
I am at a place in my life I’m actually happy with myself. I’m devoted to my happiness and spreading any happiness I can to those around me. It’ s a great feeling.
I’ve gain freedom that I’ve never had.I realized that I’ll never lose that freedom because I’m finally being me.
Freedom is the heart of being a woman. It’s part of my femininity.
I want to genuinely commit to someone for only the right reasons. It won’t ever be based on someone being a raving fan of me. I want to feel I have more freedom by being with someone than by not being with someone. When that happens, I know that I’ve have met my equal.
This confidence in myself and my mindset has allowed me now to attract positive people in my life. I’m more than enough and I know it.
Challenge yourself to truly love you and have a positive mindset about love. This will bring remarkable people into your life.
Always focus on yourself and what you can do. You were born to love. You were born for greatness.
To change your emotional state to positive, you must change your physical state. You can’t fear love. You can’t fear happiness.
Don’t justify your suffering. Don’t justify why you haven’t achieved love. Do something about it.
You’re sexy enough, smart enough, beautiful enough, and special enough to be loved.
In 2012 I realized I was a ridiculously attractive and irresistible woman. I always have something new and better to bring to the table. And that’s when I stopped telling myself lies about my own capabilities and desirability. I challenge you to do the same. You deserve commitment and it will come if you never settle for crumbs.
Don’t ever lose your natural femininity and intuition. You need these features of yourself to be successful in courtship and relationships with men. Don’t be one dimensional.
The possibility of being fulfilled by one companion is real. You can have it all.
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