Open Letter To Alex Miller

Alex, you know what’s really incredible about you?

If you thought the answer was your handsome features, that is not my answer.

Although you being absolutely amazing looking doesn’t hurt, it’s who you are as a man that makes you simply irresistible, irreplaceable.

You have such a kind soul. I have never seen you act rudely towards any human being. You’re not cruel to animals either. You’re always looking out for someone or looking to make someone laugh or smile.

You’re such a wonderful and loyal friend to your comrades.

And I can tell how you respect me that your mother and father raised you well.

I still remember when you took that batch of papers from me just so I wouldn’t have to carry the load. And you always hold doors for me and make sure I’m safe. It made me smile and made me intrigued to see the man you are .

I contemplated in my mind who is Alex Miller? Why is he so confident? Why is his handshake so firm.

I like the way you carry yourself. You’re just a stand up guy. I can’t find not one thing I don’t like about you.

And you’re even good with children. I watch how you act with children you don’t know.

I still remember you helping that little boy play with the mini bowling set at one of those Let’s Read. Let’s Move activities. You’re so helpful and sincere.

You did so well with him. It demonstrated to me how you’re a natural born leader. A great leader.

You just have a way of making people feel good around you.

When I’m around you, I always feel good.

I never feel less than. I never doubt myself. It just feels so right.

If I could describe what it feels like to be around you, I would use two words.

Utter joy.

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