Why Should Exclusivity Be Mutual In A Relationship Not One Sided?

When you’re dating someone, NEVER EVER settle for crumbs. Exclusivity should always be mutual in a relationship. Not one sided.

If someone tells you he or she wants to see other people, it’s time to do better and move on. It’s the person’s way of saying he or she doesn’t think you’re a perfect fit, so he or she rather keep options open to see if greener pastures are available.

Don’t even entertain the thought. You deserve better and you already know what you offer and that the grass ain’t greener.

Let the person know your happiness doesn’t and will never revolve around him or her. Love occurs when you find an equal that respects you and your relationship at all times.

The person doesn’t let fear direct him or her and looks around because of fear of commitment.

You’re not second choice. You’re not last minute. You’re not take me for granted. You’re not standby. If someone wants you, he or she must act on it.

Words without corresponding actions are always empty. At all times you deserve a committed partner. Never settle for less.

Let the person learn he or she has to earn affection and commitment from you.

A good relationship is good even when you’re out of sight and mind. A good relationship has loyalty and care from both partners.

Trust me, you don’t want to be with someone that’s confused about if he or she wants to be with you. You need clarity.

Until a romantic interest can give you clarity as what he or she wants with you, the person doesn’t deserve anymore of your time.

All you can do is give the person space to figure what he or she wants.

Enjoy life. Make yourself less available and date other people. Release the person unworthy of you from your life.

You deserve a real relationship…not sometimes but all the time.

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