If you don’t act like an option, you won’t be an option. Remember ladies, a guy will say just about anything to get some sex. A man that loves you will work as your teammate. There is no such thing as other people in your relationship. If it’s anything less than that, he is making you an option with your consent. You can easily shut that consent door by saying you don’t do that & mean it.
Being More Than Just An Option
Anyone who disappears then reappears in your life because he or she can’t decide where they stand with you, doesnt deserve a place in your life. You’re an option. Don’t tolerate that type of behavior. Someone that wants to be in your life will be there.