Life is 1 big chess game. On the dating scene your goal as a woman is to do 3 things to excel at your game: 1. Make yourself as attractive as possible. 2. Make yourself approachable. 3. Filter the guys that just want to bang you from the Men who want to be a gentleman & make a life with you. Read more at Fromgirltogirl’s Facebook Page.
You Can Have A Ride No Where
Reasons to pick a man with good character & you have self-love / self-confidence all along: See a car as a relationship. You’re driving & the man you’re seeing is in the passenger seat. If you & him always let fear & insecurity guide the wheel the car will veer out of control at high speeds. You’ll be in a frenzy & the sorry dude is just going to jump out the passenger seat to save his own ass. You’ll be left with your own demise. But when you let hope & love float it’s a smooth ride because God has the wheel. Which would you rather choose?
There’s No Excuse For Bad Behavior
No one that truly cares about how you feel will make excuses for bad behavior. People that make excuses for bad behavior want you to lower your expectations/standards you set for yourself on how to be treated so they don’t have to live up to those standards. A person that truly cares about you apologizes & takes on the challenge to be a better person. The person won’t even let fear / the belief that he or she lacks capability to get in the way to becoming a better person.
How To Realize He Is Not The One
Often we hang on to a relationship because we so badly for it to be the one that works. But we are setting ourselves up for pain & loss when we wait too long for it to work out. When a man says someday, don’t wait. Someday may never come. If you want commitment in the now, you can’t just sit & wait for his someday that may never happen. When you’re in this limbo position, it’s only convenient for him to have a taste of exclusiveness as he clings to his comfort zone of single guy mode. You’re precious & you deserve someone that respects & appreciates you at all times. When a man has no long term goal to commit to you, it’s time to let him. If you’re searching for someone to build a real life with you, you need to let him know. You need to set a time limit for your waiting. 10 years is out of the question. 5 years is out of the question. God made you to be loved. When you live your own life, the commitment needed for a healthy relationship will come from the right person at the right time. Don’t waste your time. For more information LIKE us on Facebook & subscribe to our blog.
High Day Care Helps Teen Moms Graduate
I applaud what Richmond VA is doing for teen moms. A day care within school is a great idea. It helps teen moms who would otherwise become high school dropouts to graduate. Also research has proven teen moms participating in the program are more likely to wait longer to have another child because they learn what it takes to be a parent & make a better life for their children. Perhaps Baltimore can have programs like this as well.
Motivational Speaker
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Respect Isn’t an Entitlement
Words of advice: Mistreating people will never entitle you to be treated with respect. To receive respect, you have to be willing to give & receive respect equally. For more words of wisdom, like us on Facebook at @Fromgirltogirl .
The Lost Years Of Imperfections
Picking at every imperfection of your life will always cloud the beauty of your life. Don’t pick or you’ll find yourself at the end of life regretting that you wasted so much time picking at the scabs of your life that you forgot to live a well lived life.
No God? The Non-believers Grow
1 in 3 people under the age of 30 don’t believe in God. Unfortunately that number is growing. It’s not my best times that made me a believer. It was my worse times where I wanted to give up or just got tired of life where something in me said God is here & God will take care of me. People let me down but something in the universe always made me feel I’m not completely alone. There’s plenty of times I’ve felt alone with people but it’s when I’m just with me & just reflecting on snippets of nature I feel most at peace. At that time I feel I belong to something. Strange but true.
Reasons I Believe In God
Although I appreciate every wonderful event in my life & give all the thanks to God about these blessings, it’s at my darkest hours I feel God is here. God is real. It was those times I wanted to give up but something in my soul said Don’t . There have been times I was simply tried of life but again my soul told me there’s work to do & it wasn’t the work for man. God is always present. If we ask for help or guidance… God will make a way in life & death. That faith has made me stronger than I have ever been. I like to think it’s God in me… I’m an instrument of God. This hits to core to me as the seasons are changing. My life season is changing once again. I don’t what’s ahead but I put my trust & faith in God. It’s the first time that faith & that faith alone has been enough for me.