Life Lessons: Stop Looking For ScapeGoats

Rules ALL PEOPLE Should live by: Stop looking for scapegoats & when you make mistakes, take responsibility for them & GROW from the experiences. You’re human…you can’t possibly think you do nothing wrong in your decision making yet be quick to blame everyone else. That’s just a reckless mentality to live by. My eyes pop out of my head when people blame anyone but themselves. * crickets *. O_O

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Talk That Talk Romney

Style points only matter for preparation which Romney should get for memorization. That’s not what’s holding his campaign back. What’s holding his campaign back are details on how he will put forth his policies. It reminds me of courtship, someone can promise a woman everything but if you’re not a man of principles…she won’t choose you to go to the alter unless she’s just as fickle as the man courting her.

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Happy Anniversary To The Obamas!

Happy Anniversary to the Obamas! God bless you with many more! I’m truly a believer that real love exist because of couples like you working through thick & thin. Not letting third parties destroy your bond matters. Being good role models to your children matters. Still dating each other in marriage matters . & above all, having faith in God to make your bond stronger is a very powerful message. Thank you for being so inspirational. I know it’s not easy but you two do such a great job making it look easy. 🙂

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The Baby Shower Of Fears & Blessings

I had the weirdest dream that I was pregnant & at my baby shower. But the theme seemed to be blessings & fears. It was like I’d be handed a blessing or a fear I guess I wanted or didn’t want for my child to inherit but I knew existed in life. I couldn’t make out many faces but when I was a kid I was afraid to put sweaters over my head. I think my kid ends up inheriting that fear. But then I recognized a face from the guests there that was my brother Anthony. He passed away but Anthony had a gift. To me it was the best gift. It wasn’t just because Anthony gave it to me but I knew my baby would need it. It was health rather than sickness. It’s one of my worst fears as a mom to have a sick child that dies. & I was just so happy I was crying but I recall saying Thank you so much. Anthony looked so happy to give his gift. It’s like he knew his gift would be a hit at my party. I got up from the dream with tears. The strange thing is that I don’t think I’m expecting a baby so I don’t know why I would have a dream like that.

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Why Should Men Treat Women With Respect?

For men who get confused why awell-educated, respectful, sexy women remain single, here’s an answer: They often have a past of running into relationships with no good men & become overly independent because those men didn’t meet their standards. Later when they meet a half decent guy, they don’t know how to detach from those negative experiences. So instead, they decide to stay single…even for a whole lifetime. This is why it’s so important how you treat women even if she may not be the one.

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Torrey Smith Makes Fund In Memory Of Tevin

After an amazing win against the New England Patriots, Ravens Wide Receive Torrey Smith & Family create a scholarship in loving memory of his brother Tevin Jones. The formal name of the scholarship is The Tevin Jones Memorial Scholarship. To donate to the scholarship fund, send donations to T Smith 1 Winning Dr. Owings Mills 21117.

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Double Standards Are Man Based Not Holy Based

Knowledge is power. Double standards are condemned by the same religious code you say you value yet Deuteronomy 25,13-15 states to not have double standards: ” Do not have 2 different measures – one large, one small . Do not have two different weights & measures so that you may live long in the land God has given you.”So when a man justifies mistreating a woman simply because she’s a woman …throw that at him. This includes verbal , emotional & physical abuse. No man is God & you never have to settle like you’re less than.

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