Ashley Madison reveals what makes extramarital sex so hot.
This week, Ashley Madison ,the world’s leading married dating website, a new study examining sexual preferences with spouses vs. affair partners. The results: affair partners are more daring and generous in bed.
Key Findings
- 53% never try new sex positions with their spouse while 93% try them with their affair partner
- Only 38% use sex toys with their spouse while two-thirds (65%) do so with their affair partner
- 62% say their spouse performs oral on them but 94% say their affair partner gives them oral
Here are ways cheaters keep it sexy in the sack with these 5 positions
When it comes to extramarital affairs, is the sex hotter because desire and risk intersect? Does forbidden sex translate to more experimental sex? Ashley Madison surveyed a sample of its members to find out how they shake it up between the sheets with their affair partner, how this compares to sex with their spouse, and how men and women differ when it comes to seeking pleasure.
Doggy-Style Is Best in Show
When surveyed members were asked to name their favourite sex position, doggy-style took the top spot for men (53%) and women (57%). For men, this was followed by cowgirl (woman on top) at 37% and the more basic missionary (man on top) at 36%. Missionary took second place (33%) for women followed by the more nimble legs over the shoulder position (28%).
Top 5 Favorite Sex Positions For Males
- Doggy-style – 53%
- Cowgirl – 37%
- Missionary – 36%
- Sixty-nine – 31%
- Legs over the shoulder – 30%
Top 5 Favorite Sex Positions For Females
- Doggy-style – 57%
- Missionary – 33%
- Legs over the shoulder – 28%
- Cowgirl – 25%
- Legs up – 25%
Are surveyed members actually getting what they like? Not surprisingly, when asked what sex position they perform the most with their spouse the more basic missionary position ranked highest (60%). But when it comes to an extramarital partner, the most performed position is doggy-style (56%), followed by missionary (38%) and the cowgirl position (36%). Since doggy-style is the preferred position for females, it’s no wonder 83% said they are able to reach climax with their extramarital partner.
Playing inside (and outside) the marital bedroom
A lack of inhibition is much more common in extramarital encounters because they allow people to break out of their routine with someone they may or may not see again. That’s likely why 53% of respondents refrain from trying new sex positions with their spouse while 93% say they do try with their extramarital partner. It seems there is a greater willingness to infuse more adventure and creativity into their affair rather than improving the sex inside their marriage.
When it comes to play inside the bedroom, 38% admit to using sex toys with their spouse while more than half (65%) say they do so with their affair partner. As for roleplay, 16% engage in role play with their spouse compared to 48% engaging in role play with their extramarital partner.
What about giving and receiving? Almost three-quarters (74%) of respondents perform oral sex on their spouse with 62% saying their spouse performs oral sex on them. However, a whopping 90% say they perform oral sex on their extramarital partner with a further 94% saying their extramarital partner performs oral sex on them. Although many have oral sex with their spouse, there is a clearly more occurring between respondents in their extramarital relationships.
When asked where they prefer to have sex, most respondents (88%) said they like the mix it up both having sex inside and outside of the bedroom.
