By Briana Booker

On Fromgirltogirl we are making a movement on healthy dating. No hanging out. No booty calls. No friends with benefits. No insecure dates or stalkers. I am going to use myself and my friends as the lab rats. Our generation has fallen short in that department. It is like going to the grocery store searching for valued goods and realizing anything of value worth taking is out of stock! Anything sitting around, the vultures and cougars are on the prowl. Who wins? None really.

If you do win, it is only temporarily. People might be upset I am saying this but would you rather hold on to the illusion that you are not wasting your time and effort on a ride getting to know where?

 Here we can start a reform. We can change the lack of valor in the dating department for ourselves and future generations. And it starts with yourself. Stop settling for less. Stop thinking you will be let down. Stop expecting someone to make you happy. Allow them to be complimentary to your happiness. The past of horrible dating can only strangle you and hold you back if you let it hold you back. Wake up.

It is not the end of the world. Females and males treat you how you let them treat you! Period.

Advice on the way…but check out this book for now, great read: