Emotional Attraction. How do you keep it?

Well, the answer is within you. Yes, YOU.

As a twenty something, I’m in the midst of growing into my full self.

I feel good about myself & focused on my dreams.

Feeling good about myself made someone I think is an outstanding man keep his eyes on me.

I didn’t know at the time but feeling great about myself made him and other people in my life feel great about me. My actions made the same people feel great about themselves as well. All this positive energy happened because I learned to focus on myself and identify truly why I wasted years trying to please emotionally abusive / manipulative people. Yes, 1 included being in an emotionally abusive/controlling situation with a man ( I wasted years of life waiting for him to stand up as a real man. Took God to get me away from that abuse) prior to dating the wonderful man God sent for me. I don’t have to share. I’m not mistreated. I’m not humiliated. I’m not cheated on.

And that in itself is one of many reasons I praise the Lord for getting me through good and bad times in my life.

Slowly but surely people bringing negative energy to my life were removed. And these positive people replaced the negative people.

Long story short: Find ways to feel good about yourself everyday. This will bring positive things/people into your life.

A woman can be as emotional as she pleases. It’s how she expresses those emotions whether it will help her increase her attractiveness or decrease it.

I’ve been on both sides of the equation but I’m really liking the positive.

Here is how you can increase your attractiveness today:

1. Be clear about what you want and expect from those in your life in a non-hostile way.

2. Identify why you are not satisfied with certain people in your life. Can these relationships be healed?

3. Never hide what you’re thinking or feeling. Someone that really cares about you will always try to hear you out and try to talk it out to find a way to be on the same page.

Hope it helps. www.fromgirltogirl.com