I know there’s lots of liberal women who follow me & you’ll hate this rule but YOU SHOULD NEVER INITIATE CONTACT with a guy. Not to ask him on date, not because he keeps eyeing you at the bar… a man into you will ALWAYS COME TO YOU! This includes setting up a date, calling you, texting you, visiting you. If you’re gone & he cares, he’ll find you. You will never have to find him because a man into you won’t risk losing you for a long period of time. It’s actually empowering to you as a woman not to initiate contact because you create a hurdle he has to find a way over to prove he has a genuine interest of being into you rather than into only sex/ banging you.