Now, some women might think that physical appearance and sex is all you need to get and keep a guy! It might work short-term,but long-term… think again! Fromgirltogirl advice of the week is for you not to be a J-F-N ( just for now) chick!  Yes a J-F-N includes being a mistress or being the third wheel!

No, your leggings and UGGS will not keep a guy interested! Your manicure and constant dieting will not keep him around! And definitely writing xoxo every where on his Twitter or Facebook will not keep a guy interested! Instead of searching for attention using outside influence and materialistic goods, try to display what you offer as a woman!

Show your cooking skills! Show a talent you have or know no one can do better than you! Show your sense of humor! Show the strengths of your personality! Beat him at his own video games! Be fun! It works in the long run!

No one wants to be just an object all the time! If you portray yourself as that, and only that… he will trade you in for an younger model when the looks start to fade away!

So learn to love you and he will surely be drawn to you and stay drawn!

Love,

Fromgirltogirl