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By Briana Booker

Washington, District of Columbia  local dating coach and author of “You Lost Him at Hello,” Jess McCann is spunky and informative! As a graduate of George Mason University ’99, McCann carries herself with much class and liveliness. She is charismatic,bluntly honest, independent, and confident! We at Fromgirltogirl love these traits about her and just had to interview this extraordinary woman! But, how did she become a successful entrepreneur  and a  must read publisher? We are here to tell you it was not easy,but persistence and a dream allowed McCann to do all this and more!

 The story behind the author.


 McCann’s first job after graduating George Mason university was a sales job. She went from door to door trying to selling merchandise. This was a commission only job and McCann was not very fond of this particular occupation. However, it led her to start a sales company in Texas, which she held for four years. During this venture she realized that business and dating were parallel to one another, and that business tactics could be used to improve one’s dating. Learn sales; learn better dating.

McCann went into the career of selling medical equipment, and by January 2007, she quit this occupation. McCann decided to follow her  dream to be a published writer! She received a book deal and wrote about how she used business tactics to improve her dating for her friends and herself. Her written wisdom became popular and she decided to run her own business as a dating coach, as well as run her own blog magazine!

McCann states: ” If you take risk early in life, you have a greater chance to succeed.” She took a leap of faith and it worked!

Questions & Answers session: Relationship and dating do’s and don’ts


Q: What motivates you?

A: I am motivated to help women see where they are going wrong. I hate seeing people go down a path that will make them unhappy.

Q: Do you see yourself as a role model for young women?

A: Yes, I see myself as a role model for young women. I show that it is possible to find true love. I found the love of my life and my best friend at the same time. I took me 9 months to find him. After that, we dated for awhile and now we are engaged.

Q: What are some signs you are dating a shady guy?

A: Dig into his past,. Ask about his ex’s and other relationships. These previous interactions give insight. If he bashes his ex(s) in front of you or none of his ex(s) have been serious relationships this is a warning sign. He might have dating phobias. Also, how he treats women and other relations he should naturally care about, such as his mom, sister and family is a signal of how he will treat you. Family is all you have at the end of the day. If  he can not treat these people with respect, he will not come close to treating you with respect.

Q: How should a woman attract a good guy?

A: Respect yourself, and men will respect you. How you dress matters. Yes, men are attracted to women who expose their cleavage,but there is a big difference between easy and hot. You want to be hot, not easy.

Q: How do you balance taking care of your significant other needs, and at the same time, not neglect your needs to maintain a good relationship?

A: You have to ask yourself: Do I really want to fight over this? Is it really important to have this discussion? Where is the line crossed? If  it compromises your own values, then you should stand up for yourself. However, you should not argue about everything. If you do, you will always be arguing with one another and that will result in an unhappy relationship.

Key advice


McCann not only answered our questions but she gave us great pointers we think all women, single and in serious relationships, should hear. The advice is as followed:

1. If single, put yourself first when you are starting to date. When your own needs are met, dating is enjoyable and less dramatic.
2.  If you are in a serious relationship, put the other person needs first. In return, this person should be putting your needs first. It is all about learning to work as a team,but still continue to enjoy one another.
3.  Do not let him do all the work. When prospecting, approach men, encourage them to  approach you. Break the ice. Smile and have eye contact. Doing it the right way brings positive results.
4. For our younger readers: Do not stay on a date too long. These days dates are too long. Do not have a night on the town and then stay the night with him. You do not want him seeing you the next day with smelly breath and  your hair all over the place. Leave at the height of impulse. Best time to leave is when you  both are at the height of enjoyment. You want him to think about you,even when you are not physically present. Leaving when he has a great impression of you is key and will keep him wanting more!

We notice today on twitter people tweeting about John Mayer. He appears to be very controversial often, but this Playboy interview is pretty comical. So, right before Valentines day John Mayer declares his penis as discriminatory. Wow. We at Fromgirltogirl recommend John Mayer and many other men to taste the rainbow. Actually, this is a memo to females too. You would be surprised who can bring joy to your life when you open up your horizons to greater opportunities( this would happen in February).

Our boss twitter to John Mayer:

RT @bbhoney88: @johncmayer you should taste the rainbow! Missin out bro! Baltimore has a good selection…

Send us your best John Mayer line of the day!

Will google buzz be the next big social connector? Let us know your thoughts! 


So far, Fromgirltogirl loves it! Close to email, easy to find contacts, easy to distinguish private versus private information! And best of all, easy to filter through tons of data! We think it is a must have! Check out the google presentation below:




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P.s- It is mobile! And yes, it is amazing as a mobile device. We are sure 6 months top it will blow twitter out of the water…video, photos, business connections… awesome! 🙂

We at Fromgirltogirl love to give great news at all times! We have an Andy Suzuki & The Method’s update! They officially have T-Shirts! The T-Shirts are American Apparel, guys and girls cuts, only $15! Great deal! If you want one contact Andy Suzuki at  andy.suzuki.music@gmail.com !




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We saw this on facebook and we love it! Check it out! No place like Baltimore!


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Hot!

1. Sonic coming to Randallstown ( we hear a rumor of this)! If this is true, we hope that Jack in the box follows!

2. Rihanna’s dress Superbowl weekend! She does it justice!

3. The Saints winning! Kim Kardashian is a good luck charm( yes it is all about Kim)!

4. Snow days, thank you mother nature!

5. Justin Bieber, from youtube star to platinum artist!

6. Beyonce being Beyonce, fierce!

7. Pole dancing classes!

8. Victoria’s Secret!

9. The puppy bowl!

10. CBS new show: Undercover boss( we will be watching the Hooters episode)!

Now, some women might think that physical appearance and sex is all you need to get and keep a guy! It might work short-term,but long-term… think again! Fromgirltogirl advice of the week is for you not to be a J-F-N ( just for now) chick!  Yes a J-F-N includes being a mistress or being the third wheel!

No, your leggings and UGGS will not keep a guy interested! Your manicure and constant dieting will not keep him around! And definitely writing xoxo every where on his Twitter or Facebook will not keep a guy interested! Instead of searching for attention using outside influence and materialistic goods, try to display what you offer as a woman!

Show your cooking skills! Show a talent you have or know no one can do better than you! Show your sense of humor! Show the strengths of your personality! Beat him at his own video games! Be fun! It works in the long run!

No one wants to be just an object all the time! If you portray yourself as that, and only that… he will trade you in for an younger model when the looks start to fade away!

So learn to love you and he will surely be drawn to you and stay drawn!

Love,

Fromgirltogirl

Sick of hearing advice from single people that never works? Then check out Jess McCann! She has a man. She has a great career! And she is tremendously confident!

McCann is a dating coach and today she was on News Channel 8 in Washington, DC! She gave advice on Valentines day that we think all men and women should hear about! Here are five tips she gave today:

1. Go to happy hour during the times of 5pm to 9pm. She snagged her soon to be husband this way! McCann says that a man with a go getter attitude and a solid career usually attends happy hour earlier than later. A guy that goes later during happy hour most likely has nothing better to do in the morning and might not have a stable income or be emotionally stable ! This is definitely a no,no!

2. This is not the 1950’s let a guy know you are interested! Smile and give eye contact… do not be shy! The early bird always catches the worm! Go out and pursue your guy! Make him feel wanted, he does not have to do all the work!

3. Pursue what you want out of a relationship,not just what you want out of a guy or girl!

4.  Change your actions so that you can change your results into positive outcomes in your relationships! If you like complaining about every little thing, then stop! You and your potential interest will never live happily ever after if you nag and complain 24-7! Relationships are built on sacrifice and team work!

5. Stop listening to people with a trend in bad relationships! And definitely stop listening to your single friends! How are you going to find someone to be happy with listening to people who are in the same predicament as you! Think about it!

6. If you are single on valentines day, don’t whine about it! You can always go on a date with someone you are not too serious with and have fun! Nothing wrong with being single!

7. Love yourself and someone will learn to love you back!

8. Balance friendship and romance!

9. Check out Jess McCann’s Blog!

10. Buy McCann new books ” You Lost Him at Hello,” for more useful tips! It’s on amazon now for $10.17!

This is just a video of our boss! It’s from her youtube channel but our youtube channel will be up and running in no time!


Cheers to hard work!




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