Stories from Room 17**** : No Hit and Roll Out

Let’s just say I have very interesting neighbors. This week has been a funny one. Supposedly one of my neighbors has a very “exciting” sex life and my other neighbors aren’t too happy about it. They filed a noise complaint against my neighbor who just happens to enjoy sex with quite a number of girls or the vampires. I like to call them the vampires because the girls come after nightfall and leave before sunrise. These patterns are also known as booty calls.

Anyways, the women that seem to have no partners in their lives snitched on him. My neighborhood seem to be very upset at the neighbors he likes to talk a mile a minute with today.

Lesson learned, don’t get friendly with your neighbors because they will learn too much about you.

I personally like that we are still a mystery living here. People know we live here but nobody knows much about us.

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NEW: The Sex Confessions Of A Blogger Series

 



I receive letters about giving the juice about what works and doesn’t work for me when it comes to sex. I have decided to start a series called the sex confessions of a blogger. I will do my best to not use names but when I thought about the topic I thought of Ciara’s song Body Party. It is one the songs I love to have on repeat. Check out the song Body Party now:

Here is my first entry for my sex confession series:

Sex Confessions of A Blogger: Toe Curling Reflections.

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You Don’t Have To Have Sex For Him to Commit

Bottom line: you don’t have to have sex with a man for him to. Commit. A man serious about you will respect you from the get go. Also in the first couple of months he will ask to meet your parents & have you at least meet his parents. No real man is ashamed to carry you or himself with respect. It’s not a me situation; relationships are about an Us. You’re either together or you’re not. Nothing is new under the sun. www.fromgirltogirl.com

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Acid Test: Why is He Having Sex With Me?

ACID TEST: There are only 2 purposes to sex: 1. Pleasure 2. To make a baby. A man will lay down with you for his pleasure. If he doesn’t ever mention a future with you, stop having sex with him because everytime you have sex with him you take the chance of having a baby. & if he never had plans to commit to you, he won’t try just because he got you pregnant. Think about it. www.fromgirltogirl.com We call these types of men bums. Avoid at all cause. Like Fromgirltogirl on Facebook for more valuable advice : www.facebook.com/fromgirltogirl

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Love Advice: Don’t Act Like An Option

If you don’t act like an option, you won’t be an option. Remember ladies, a guy will say just about anything to get some sex. A man that loves you will work as your teammate. There is no such thing as other people in your relationship. If it’s anything less than that, he is making you an option with your consent. You can easily shut that consent door by saying you don’t do that & mean it.

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How To Make a Man Want to Commit: Be Selective

By Briana Booker

Besides having a positive attitude and a life of your own, how do you make your man want to commit to you?

Fromgirltogirl is starting a series on what makes a guy want to commit to you. We will provide you advice on how to get him there without convincing him or playing the mind games.

Tip #1 Show Him You are Selective.

When you show a man you are selective and not every man in the world can have you but the “one”, you draw him closer to you. Men love the thrill of the chase. They love working for something worth having. Sex with a girl that he cares nothing about is like a snack before a holiday feast. It is just for now but he is really anticipating the feast, the big reward.

You can start drawing a man in by saying honestly where you stand on your attitude about relationships. Do not whine about him and what he has not offered yet. You will scare him away by appearing too needy.

Say something around the lines of the following commit reference:

“It is your right to date more than one woman at a time. I understand, but I want you to know I am looking for an exclusive relationship with the right man. I want to find out if we are on the same page before taking our dating further.”

AND NO, IF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING A GUY FOR LESS THAN A MONTH, please do not try the whole, I love you forever and a day. You have to commit to me.

These actions and words are controlling. Honestly, it takes 3 to 4 months on average for people to get out of the lust/ honeymoon stage of dating.

Notice in the statement you made no demands. Because you made no demands, you do not come off needy and unattractive. You are simply letting him know you have standards and you will stick to those standards. He NEEDS to meet those standards before YOU can decide to choose to be with him.

It is that simple. You are presenting him your needs and boundaries. Any man that truly wants you and does not want to lose you will respect that.

Trust me, the right man will ASK YOU for commitment.  And best of all he will think it was his idea the whole time and that he won your affection and passion.

If this does not happen, you know where you stand with him. He just is not that into you but that does not mean that will not change down the line.

But if he does not change( and please do not wait around for change), keep the door to your soul and effort open for someone ready to give you what you need and more. This is one of the stepping stones to forming an amazing and committed relationship.

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