Love Yourself Enough to Walk Away From Being The Side Chick

Love Yourself Enough To Walk Away From Being A Side Chick.

Love yourself enough to walk away from being the side chick. You are worthy of REAL love.Valentine’s Day,TOMORROW, IS YOUR DAY TO SET YOURSELF FREE IN STYLE. Don’t be afraid of the unknown. Don’t be taken advantage of anymore. If you haven’t been made a priority…the person won’t ever make you one. Love yourself enough to walk away.

 

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Briana Booker: The Day In The Life of A Social Media Specialist

 

ShadowLand 1st Major Social Media Campaign: Best Caption Contest. Managed and Monitored by Briana Booker for Adventure Web Productions

 

By Briana Booker

As you may or may not know, I am Briana Booker, Founder of  Fromgirltogirl, at www.fromgirltogirl.com,a lifestyle enrichment magazine for girls by girls. I graduated from college in May 2011 with a Major in International Studies. My first job out of college is being a social media specialist. I am learning so much about web marketing, corporate marketing and social media marketing campaigns.

A current social media campaign I am working on is for ShadowLand Laser Adventures, a laser tag center for teens, children, families, corporate teams, and charity organizations. I write weekly blogs for ShadowLand Laser Adventure and manage/monitor their social media networks. I conduct ShadowLand Laser Adventures weekly offers of discounts and deals.

The Best Caption Contest is ShadowLand Laser Adventures’ first major social media campaign. It is expected to run for 14 days. We started posting the post last weekend, Saturday February 4, 2012 with 179 Likes(Facebook Followers). It is now Wednesday night February 8,2012. We currently have 325 Likes on Facebook.

The strategy was to make Liking the Facebook page a requirement to enter the Best Caption contest. Today was the first day we have sent out our newsletter mentioning the contest. So far, the contest has been a success! I will update this blog post with the final results of the campaign when the Best Caption Contest Campaign ends.

Please review the campaign here: 

BEST CAPTION CONTEST: What are the 2 players saying to each other as they take part in a laser adventure at ShadowLand? WRITE your entertaining captions on our Submission page to enter the contest. The person with the MOST ORIGINAL and FUNNY caption will win a $50 ShadowLand gift certificate! The CONTEST IS FROM NOW UNTIL Thursday February 16,2012( The day we decide who is the winner). LIKE OUR Facebook FAN-PAGE AND ENTER the contest today!

ENTER YOUR CAPTION SUBMISSIONS HERE: http://shadowlandadventures.com/contest.php AND SHARE with your friends here: http://offerpop.com/shadowland_adv/70185

 

UPDATE: Within 14 days of the campaign, fans went from 179 likes to 413+ likes on Facebook.

 

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Own Your Voice To Get What You Want

As a woman, I am starting to learn if I want power over my personal and professional success I need to own my statements. I need to give my voice power. Young girls are taught to speak in a voice tone that is favorable to anyone and everything. It makes us come off timid and prevents us from getting what we want and need in romance and in our careers. So what is the solution? You can speak up for yourself but know when it is better be silent and listen, listening gains you wisdom about the situation. It will never lessen your power. Being the loudest and most arrogant can make you lose power rather than gain it. You can not win every battle, especially when it come to romantic conflicts. Pick your battles wisely. And most of all only apologize once, if at all. You do not have to apologize for having an honest opinion. You should apologize only once at the least and most, if you stated your honest opinion in a disrespectful way. Follow the golden rule. Be assertive( powerful verbals help but like, maybe, I think this might do not work) and do not be a bitch who has to have it her way or no way at all. When you take the bitch way, I can guarantee both your romance and career success will falter. – Briana Booker

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Bulletin Points from President Obama’s 2012 State of the Union Address

Economic fairness was the theme for tonight’s State of The Union Address. Here are just a few key points from the speech:

  •  President Obama: Our oldest alliances in Europe and Asia are stronger than ever. Our ties to the Americas are deeper.
  • If you make more than $1 million a year, you should not pay less than 30% in taxes’ – President Obama
  • The most immediate priority is stopping a tax hike on 160 million working Americans while the recovery is still fragile.
  • President Obama proposes generating clean energy to power 3 million homes on public lands.
  • If you’re a business that wants to outsource jobs, you shouldn’t get a tax deduction for doing it.
  • President Obama to call on states to raise dropout age to 18.
  • President Obama is for women rights to equal pay for equal work.
  •  Today General Motors is back on top as the world’s number 1 automaker.
  • Train 2 million Americans that will lead directly to a job.
  • Hold Wall Street accountable, so a crisis like this never happens again.
I thought the speech was direct, strong, passionate and organized. I hope these initiatives will be acted on this year and beyond. What are your opinions on the speech?
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How To Keep Your Skin Beautiful and Glowing

Are you looking for ways to make your skin glow and be beautiful? If yes, we are here to help. No, the answer is not in expensive anti-aging creams but what you eat.

Sugary, fatty foods such as ice cream will harm your skin. Sugary and fatty foods remove elasticity from your skin,  make your skin dry and breaks down your collagen.

Here are foods and beverages that will help boost your skin beauty:

Eat Orange Fruits and Vegetables

When you eat orange fruits and vegetables suchs as oranges and carrots, you give your body rich antioxidants that improve eye sight. You also give your body great amounts of Vitamin C which fights wrinkles and sagging skin.

Drink Tea Daily

If you drink Green, Black and White teas, you can reduce acne and inflammation on your skin.

Eat Allium Vegetables

Vegetables such as garlic, onions and shallots make blood flow through your body easier. This gives your skin an body the nutrition it needs to function properly.

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Apple Made in America: The Lost Dream

Got up slightly disgusted that as I type this, I have helped destroy American Jobs an the Middle Class I can only hope my children will see and experience. I am a huge fan of Apple products for the beauty of design and easy user-friendly platform. But I would pick a phone Made in America if I could. Is that possible? So blown over this New York Times article this morning. Our counterparts have out done us in skill and speed. Economic nightmare.

 

How can we stop big corporations, such as Apple, from permanently destroying American job growth an the Middle Class in America?

Read the New York Times Article below for details on Apple’s destruction to our economy and society:

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The White Minority

 

Aria Peace Corps Volunteer in St. Lucia discusses her experience being the White Minority


 By Aria Grabowski

I am a white girl, born in America. Although I have lived in a relatively diverse area my whole life, I always was in the majority. In many ways this left me oblivious to what it means to be a minority, to be surrounded by people that do not know what it is like to have the hair of a white person. This all changed when I started my Peace Corps service and my new nickname became white girl.
I moved to a community where I was the only white person. For some of the people in the community, I was the only white person they had ever talked to in life.

In my community most people were filled with questions and amazement about my whiteness. Yes, my scalp is really white like paper. No, my hair did not come from a doll. Yes, I turn red if I stay in the sun too long. Yes, if you press my skin it will briefly change color. I do not know why my veins are that color and no I do not poop white.

Aria with the women of St. Lucia
Aria with some of the female teachers at the primary school in St. Lucia.

At first, I found the questions, poking, and petting extremely annoying. I do not think anyone wants a stranger on the bus touching their hair. But then I realized these actions were usually not coming from a place of hate or malice. It was coming from a lack of knowledge.

I quickly realized that I not only represented Americans and the Peace Corps. I also represented white people. I needed to do everything possible to help people understand that all white people are not tourists, rich, greedy, or cheap. Not all white women are easy. We are different from black people physically.  So when people asked me questions, no matter how crazy, I tried to be patient, understanding and answer questions.

Even with all my attempted patience and understanding, I realized in some way it affected how I viewed interactions with people, especially people I did not know well.

 

The Pole Vault St. Lucia Team Aria Grabowski coached during her Peace Corps Volunteering.

I frequently found myself thinking someone was treating me in a certain way because I was white.  If a guy hit on me, I just assumed it was because I was white and a possible visa. This view came from receiving more marriage proposals from strangers than I could count. It also cam from the phrase ‘I like to see your color’ being a frequently used pick-up line. Obviously, every guy I met was not interested in that, but how could I tell?

There were other times people would try to charge me more for things and I always assumed this was because I was white. The people thought I did not know better. They thought I was rich so it was okay to rip me off. But maybe these were honest mistakes?

Then there were times people would ask me to buy stuff for them. Again, I just assumed it was because I was white and by default rich. If I did not buy, I would be labeled cheap and greedy.

As time went on, it occurred to me that their actions may not have had to do with my whiteness.  It may have been based on the fact that it seemed like I had my life together, and by default, must have money.

I started to notice that I had a slight chip on my shoulder about being treated differently just because I was white. I was never certain whether I was treated this way because I was white or I was not white. It made me realize how hard it must be for minorities in the states – always wondering if that interaction was due to race and never being able to know if it was or was not.

Sadly, from my experience it seems like the only thing that can be done, is to get thick skin. Try to be patient and understanding. Try to fight ignorance, no matter how exhausting and hard it may be.  I hope that one day things will be different.  Granted that is easy for me to say because my experience being a minority lasted only 2+ years and for the most part did not have hatred attached to it.

 

By Aria Grabowski

Aria Grabowski wrote this article to discuss her experience being a minority for 2+years.She served as a peace corps volunteer in St. Lucia from Feb 23 2009-May 28 2011.

Fromgirltogirl Discussion: How do you think we can promote more patience, understanding, and acceptance of different cultures and people in communities around the world?

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