Whether people like it or not, it’s going to happen. Something is going to change.
Letting Go or Holding On?
Life is all about making decisions to let go or hold on to something or someone. & you never know if it’s the right choice until you see the results. Are you letting go or holding on?
Taking Chances For A Taste Of Happiness
I’m not looking for safe… I’m looking for what can really happen…professionally & in a personal relationship. 4 yrs ago I was looking for safe. How could I get better if I always seek safe? That’s when I learned to take chances.
Courtship: Is It Dead In Western Culture?
How many of you make it a requirement that a man goes to your parents or guardian for permission to date you & receive a blessing? Why or why not?
Love Advice: Don’t Act Like An Option
If you don’t act like an option, you won’t be an option. Remember ladies, a guy will say just about anything to get some sex. A man that loves you will work as your teammate. There is no such thing as other people in your relationship. If it’s anything less than that, he is making you an option with your consent. You can easily shut that consent door by saying you don’t do that & mean it.
Money Can’t Buy Love Or Faithfulness
“Ladies, if you messing with a dude for his money don’t expect him to be faithful, because you not looking for his heart.”
How To Find Love: Don’t Date Married Men
You know you deserve better when you’re having these kinds of conversations about love: “@whatthelove: You: He’s married but I love him Your Friend: That’s awesome! He’s the love of your life! #dumbconversationsaboutlove” . Love yourself enough to walk away and find better. Better is out there when you carry yourself with respect.
Abuse Is Not Love
One thing I’m never going to do is lie to my children what love looks and feels like. Many people take control as love. It’s never been love. When you know what you don’t know, that’s when cycles of misery can be broken. Abuse is not love.
Being More Than Just An Option
Anyone who disappears then reappears in your life because he or she can’t decide where they stand with you, doesnt deserve a place in your life. You’re an option. Don’t tolerate that type of behavior. Someone that wants to be in your life will be there.
Black Community Empowerment: Black Men Lead Our Community
I was talking to some Black women a day ago. I asked what do you think could make Black communities thrive. There was a majority consensus that we need Black men to lead our communities. We need men that help raise our children not just donate sperm or be emotionally distant fathers & spouses( I know it might have been done to us but you should always thrive to do better for your offspring). Yes, the community is bruised but not broken. Change for the better is possible. Greatness starts with courage and persistence. Although Black women can be excellent parents, we can’t do it alone anymore…not if we want to revive these communities. & above all Black women need to respect themselves. A man will walk all over you and disrespect you when you settle for less than love and respect. You do not have to be rude and abuse a man to get love and respect. You just have to appreciate him and also have the courage to respectfully tell him to step up. This is the wake up call and I’m not sugar coating. And trust me… Black men we do want to see , you,the Black men as the real, positive leaders of the Black community. We won’t know greatness until we know your worth & our worth. Stop putting each other down and start working together. Slavery and slave mentality is over.